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#1040 - 02/13/09 05:15 PM Need Advise On My Back-Stabbing Friend!
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My girlfriend and I have been going out since late september, and around that time my "best friend" started to talk to me more during our 1st in 2nd period class (my girlfriend has both classes with us). Afew weeks after I started going out with my gf, chuck (the d*******g that I used to call my friend) asked jessica (some of you may remmeber her as my girlfriends best friend) out. Every thing was fine and was pretty cool for about 2 weeks but then chuck started to hit on my girlfriend every single day. At first I ignored it but adventually it got to be a real problem. Since then he's jumped in my grave every time I've been late for school, he sees her 10x more often than I do, and there have been times when my girlfriend has ditched me/ ignored my existance to go talk to him.

Should I be worried? What should I do?

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#1050 - 02/14/09 12:02 PM Re: Need Advise On My Back-Stabbing Friend! [Re: Mod Dark Angel 101]
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I don't want to cause any more problems, but i'd become worried, sounds like he's a real jerk. You've just gotta think, is she worth it? Talk to here about it.


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#1052 - 02/14/09 12:14 PM Re: Need Advise On My Back-Stabbing Friend! [Re: Admin Cult Killer]
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i have talked to her several times about it and she gets very upset when ever i say that it pisses me off. shes tells me that if i want, she'll never talk to him again but i just dont think thats really fair to her.
what i wanna know is should i confront him? i know for a fact that he likes her (he flat out said it to the both of us) so its not like im accusing him of something that may or may not be true...

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#1053 - 02/14/09 12:24 PM Re: Need Advise On My Back-Stabbing Friend! [Re: Mod Dark Angel 101]
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Oh, that sucks, I'd confront him about it, tell him you don't like him flirting with her, I wouldn't mind him talking to her, flirting's different though.
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#1056 - 02/14/09 12:29 PM Re: Need Advise On My Back-Stabbing Friend! [Re: Admin Cult Killer]
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kk. i will

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#1057 - 02/14/09 12:30 PM Re: Need Advise On My Back-Stabbing Friend! [Re: Mod Dark Angel 101]
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Sounds good, hope he understands.
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#1058 - 02/14/09 12:44 PM Re: Need Advise On My Back-Stabbing Friend! [Re: Admin Cult Killer]
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if not i think that my friends will make him. the have a tendancy to literly toss him out of class when he's hitting on my girlfriend

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#1065 - 02/14/09 07:34 PM Re: Need Advise On My Back-Stabbing Friend! [Re: Mod Dark Angel 101]
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That seems violent...

Sweet...
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#1067 - 02/14/09 07:52 PM Re: Need Advise On My Back-Stabbing Friend! [Re: Admin Cult Killer]
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yeah. hes not well liked at that school any more

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#1081 - 02/15/09 08:19 AM Re: Need Advise On My Back-Stabbing Friend! [Re: Mod Dark Angel 101]
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Ahh... Do you have any idea if your GF has any interest in him?
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#1084 - 02/15/09 08:43 AM Re: Need Advise On My Back-Stabbing Friend! [Re: Admin Cult Killer]
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every time i mention him she says hes digusting (sp?) so id have to say no. shes also very clingy to me so i dont think she'll up and leave me. what im worried about really is him trying to wedge himself inbetween us after we get into a fight or something...

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#1089 - 02/15/09 08:53 AM Re: Need Advise On My Back-Stabbing Friend! [Re: Mod Dark Angel 101]
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Yeah, she definitely genuinely likes you, that's a tough situation. Have you explained what your worried about, really open up.
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#1092 - 02/15/09 09:18 AM Re: Need Advise On My Back-Stabbing Friend! [Re: Admin Cult Killer]
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yes i have. she always promises that something like that would never happen, but i know this guy pretty well and he doesnt give up until he gets what he wants. he is also just as charismatic and influential at the school as i am, so in a way hes like my ultimate rival lol...

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#1093 - 02/15/09 09:22 AM Re: Need Advise On My Back-Stabbing Friend! [Re: Mod Dark Angel 101]
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Ultimate Rival (Mortal Kombatuld Theme Plays). I think you should stop worrying, that's whats going to stop this relationship with your GF, not your Backstabbing friend.
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#1097 - 02/15/09 09:29 AM Re: Need Advise On My Back-Stabbing Friend! [Re: Admin Cult Killer]
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i guess your right. thnx.

now i just need a way to get back at him for stabbing me in the back lol

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#1099 - 02/15/09 09:33 AM Re: Need Advise On My Back-Stabbing Friend! [Re: Mod Dark Angel 101]
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Yeah, NP Dark,

Is it possible that you turned your back making it easier for him to stab you? As in you let your guard down and trusted him too much.
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